Ang mga Babae...

"Ang mga babae, madaldal/mabunganga." Oo, wala talagang tigil ang bibig sa pag-rachada sa kakasalita. Lalo na sa tuwing pinapaalala nila sayo na oras na para inumin ang iyong gamot, kapag nagtatanong sila kung kumain ka na ba, kapag ginising ka nila sa umaga upang hindi ma-late at sa mga pagkakataon na nag-aalala sila sayo at tinatanong kung nasaan ka na at bakit hindi ka pa umuuwi. Walang duda, madaldal nga. Hayaan mo na, balang araw, siguro magbabago din sila. Tipong maririnig mo lang eh "Oo", "Hinde" at "Pwede". Para kayong naglalaro ng Pinoy Henyo. 

"Ang mga babae, masyadong sentimental." Oo sinabi mo pa, ganun talaga! Tandang-tanda nga nila ang petsa at lugar kung saan kayo unang nag-date, nakatago at ingat na ingat siya sa mga larawan nyong dalawa, daig pa niya ang collector ng mga antique sa pag-aalaga ng mga iniregalo mo at kahit kailan hindi niya nalilimutan ang mga importanteng okasyon tulad ng anniversary, monthsary, weeksary o birthday mo. Nakaka-inis ba? Ok lang yan, malay mo next time, hindi na siya ganun. Tipong i-aasa na lang niya sa Facebook ang kaarawan mo tapos tamang post na lang sa wall mo ng "hapi bday".

"Ang mga babae, emosyonal." They cry about movies. They get teary with a romantic novel. They blush and gasp upon seeing a picture of a cute dog or a cuddly baby. Bakit ba ganun sila? Hmmmm...buti na lang kayong mga lalaki hindi noh?! Kasi kayo kinikimkim lang ninyo lahat ng emosyon sa loob hanggang sa sumabog at atakihin sa puso o di naman kaya eh magpapakalasing tapos magwawala at maghahamon ng wrestling. Di ba mas logical yun?

Ang mga babae madalas pa mag-imagine na ikakasal kayo sa simbahan. Lagi nag a-i love you, i miss you, take care/ingat at mwah-mwah sa text. Asar ka na ba at nako-cornyhan? Ayos lang yan. Darating din siguro ang time na titigil siya at i-sesend ang mga yun sa iba. 

Women are probably the greatest gift to men, from God, beside beer and sizzling sisig. At para sa 'kin, women deserve all advantages, lalo na sa pag-ibig. Sana lahat ng babae ay maging masaya ang lovelife. Sana, walang babaeng heart-broken, kasi, kayong mga lalake, you're meant to pursue them and it's okay if you fail from time to time. It's the way nature intended it. Gaya ng isang leon sa usa o pag-ikot ng Earth sa paligid ng araw. 

Mas okay kung kayo na lang yung masasaktan (hahahaha)! Eh ang mga babae? Isipin mo, nagkakaroon sila ng "dalaw" at nababaliw kada buwan, nabubuntis at nahihirapan ng 9 months, at pinaka matindi sa lahat, kailangan pa nilang panatilihing makinis at walang buhok ang kanilang mga kili-kili. Ano ba namang pasayahin sila at gawing "scar-free" ang kanilang buhay pag-ibig. And if you are with a great gal, do everything to make her happy. Don't ever break her heart. 

Wag kang magpa-uto sa mga statistics, na nagsasabing, mas marami ang babae sa lalake, kaya okay lang mang-chiks. Ano pa bang gusto mo? Hindi pa ba sapat na minahal ka niya sa kabila ng iyong pagiging engot at kawalan ng Romantic DNA sa katawan? Malaki man ang papolasyon nila sa mundo, napaka-liit ng tsansang makakilala ka ulit ng katulad niya na magtya-tyaga sayo. Tandaan, pansamantala ka mang maakit ng mga naglalakihang pulang high-heels o maaarteng makintab na sandals, mas masarap pa ring umuwi sa nag-iisang tsinelas ng buhay mo. ;)

PEOPLE CHANGE

Have you ever been in a situation that seemed so perfect?

And then looked back on it and realized it wasn’t as it seemed?

I was remembering something about him. Reminiscing a time when I was so happy being with him.

I look back now, almost like I’m staring at us from another person’s view.

I see a completely different person now.

He isn’t the person I knew.

It’s strange to spell out, but all I can say is in my memories, he isn’t who he was.

People change. Oh yes, we change!

So don't ever expect that the person you knew a decade ago will be the same person now.

I'm Just Proud of the Fact That You've Done It Your Way

Have you actually been proud of your boyfriend? That you have been fortunate enough to know precisely the real him, while everyone else wants to be up close with him at that certain moment where you know in by yourself that you have had enough of what they are presently craving for. Not only in the physical standpoint of why they crave for your boyfriend just to be up close with him, but the each and every little thing that flashes the eyes of the crowd and the way he astonishes everyone just the way he is.

Perhaps in some point of time, you got jealous of what he shouldn't provide too considerably for the crowd, but you have to take the truth that you two have both diverse kind of living to deal with. Some little factors that can make us jealous are the issues that remarkably been taught to make us realize something we shouldn't be jealous about. But at the end of the day, you are just proud of the fact of what he is in his own world, moments that you aren't with him and have to dwell his own life, and you are proud simply because he didn't change a bit of the way he is with you and without you.

"I'm just proud of the fact that you've done it your way." You claimed to your boyfriend, when you really don't have to be someone you aren't, within his entire world when you see him recognizably does not changing the way he is of the way he was with you prior to that moment.

You never know that he has the very same proud that you have with him, and probably that's the main reason why he only have to be himself, simply because you are proud and happy of each other appropriately. And what's more sweeter than that? :)

If I Wake Up Tomorrow Will You Still Be Here?

Have you actually concerned about your boyfriend leaving you in the morning or somewhere along in the wilderness that he will leave you any point in time? That you know that the night was an aspiration for you, and you know that if he at any time depart you that simply, you will now be awaken of a truth looks to be a dream. Uncertainties, when you don't know how considerably of a time he will get to be with you, but you know in by yourself that you have had ample of what you craved for.

I'm not pertaining to the 'sleeping with' matter but to the other side that you'll be concerned, that you know that he will leave you when you know with all your heart and soul that you gave your entire self to him. You just make sure yourself that you are an aspect of him and so he is with you. You really should know that if you have a thing to share or something to impart with each other, not only that sexual matter but also the very little factors, you know that you just influence him of the way he is and the way he will be if you at any time see each other yet again. The way he is when he is with you, now staying unfold of what amount of confidence and believe in that he could give in to that friendship or partnership you are possessing. A moment you understand that you are "in-theirs" and "in-time."

"If I wake up tomorrow will you still be here?" You claimed to him, when you know in yourself that you just do not execute all the ideas you had in your thoughts and that is why you consult him if he actually arrive back again so that you will have some other time to fulfill of what you have started off. Indeed, you want to finish each single discussion in a substantial note, so you let him know that you have had a good time and anticipating to have an additional time to spare with each other. You can't help yourself but to wait around for tomorrow and have it provide that feeling of enjoyment and rush you want to pour in so you could execute of what you must do at the appropriate sort of time.

Right after he just depart you, the moments that you have missed or anything you regret will haunt you right at that moment. You know that you have to wait for it tomorrow to have an opportunity to do it, but your inner drive to push out that regret instantly will just make you think that you are pathetic enough to have that time once again that you just dropped. You know that time will be subsequent, but you just make the most out of all the self-assurance you had right at that instant. And now that your confidence is suitable, that you now have that will to pull him back to you would make no perception simply because it isn't the proper time for you to do it. But you never ever know if he will at any time like that way or the other way about, nevertheless you have to regard as it is.

Now that, as soon as you retain it likely you will understand that you will in no way have sufficient time, just about every time you meet up with to have that great conversation. And then, you make it as a practice and make it to the level that you can, by no means dwell without it, and you choose to have it to live for your whole life. And that's how you act at it, you discover things that you want to live for the rest of your life and the simple fact that it all started off as an aspiration, but now you are leaving an aspiration you have never imagined to take place. Life is too short, so we have no time to spare for the factors and other things that is not significant to live a life to its fullest!